* COMPLAINTS! *

recently, lots of unhappy things are happening around me and also the close ones in my life.
firstly, as for my personal discontentment, i shall not disclose it openly.
Afterall, this is no longer a PRIVATE blog.
i get unwanted readers sometimes :x
I havent master the skill to restrict and lock my entries.
But i certainly believes that its no point to post an entry, then to lock it.
I'd rather do it on a 2nd blog address. (tsk tsk)

well, suddenly felt like clubbing today, for the first time in 3 years!
With rebecca and hweekoon and her friends..
but later on, my lazyness took me over.
now the years continue counting up..
but i know, someone has the power and attraction to get me moving.
so i texted him to come along, but he was engaged for the day.
No motivation, and no mood.
so i still gave up!

i must really learn, i must learn.
to let "it" go.

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Occasionally i heard friends complaining and rantings about their other half.
about how guys couldnt care less to show some encouragement and comfort.
that they always took us for granted and do things their way....

But there is one particular one i want to point it out.

Sometimes, when we see our pretty lil pink top got dirtied or discolored by some chemicals, we tend to grumble a bit, we tend to show our unhappy and starts talking non-stop about it.
What is so difficult to keep us down by saying things like,

"it's okay, we will try to clean it up at the laundry"

OR

"It's alright, next time be more careful okay."

Instead of :

"Shut up la! You are the one that wanted to put this stupid pink dress into the machine, now you are blaming me la?"

AND

"FINE! if that is the case, don't wash your clothes with mine the next time until i have 2 machines for you to separate the clothings!"

SEE MY POINT!

I know we read these multiple times over and over again in emails and magazines that at any point of a quarrel we should always keep our cool and take things slowly.

Its time i think guys need more reading than us! *hoofs*

AND THIS IS ESPECIALLY HARD TO SWALLOW WHEN ITS YOUR CLOSE FRIEND BEING THE VICTIM!

i wont say its a domestic abuse la! its too much...
but, it is not an understatement to say that my friend at any point of time deserves a better man, whom loves her the way it should have been.

But its very hard to let go, i know.
I TOTALLY CAN UNDERSTAND.
moreover, we are counting a relationship almost close to a decade for this case.

But all the more, i thought, give it some serious thought.
And not let this be a dark cloud that follows you through.
你会好好的。



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